Recently I had an interesting conversation with my friend Trish Ellis about employees. This was news to me but she told me there is a new term for coming of age employees, called “Millennials”. These are my kid’s generation, born some where between the late 1980’s and 2000 and they are creating a real problem for employers: They don’t take orders well.
When I first started working, at age 10 on our family cranberry marsh, the employee handbook was titled “Because I said so”. When I was told to dig ditches, I did not ask “Why?” I dug ditches. If they were not deep enough or straight enough, I dug them again and usually at no pay and with a sore behind as a reminder to do the job right. Today’s employees are not as easily motivated to excel in the workforce.
Trish’s consulting company, Ellis & French LLC, coach employers and employees how to work together. The “Millennials” are coming into the job market in enormous numbers, some 80,000,000+, with a completely new approach to work ethics’ from the one I knew. They want to be asked to do a job, and asked nicely. I am simplifying a complex issue here; however it is creating enormous conflicts for both employers and employees today. So much so that companies like Trish’s are springing up to transition both parties through the process.
For new companies that don’t have employees, this topic is relevant as you will employ others some day. For those of you who already employ, you know what I am talking about.
Relating to Employees
With very few exceptions we have all been employees at one time or another. Only a few of us have been employers however. So it is likely that when you become an employer, you will access some of the strategies and tactics you saw while working for someone else. We have all had bad bosses who made the work experience tough on us. Some of them may actually have been good leaders but they made life hard because they held us accountable. Finding the right balance with employees is very hard and never stops. Because of the stresses and duties required in running a company is so all consuming, we will often forget or fail to take time to be human with employees. Or we go the other direction and become too familiar with employees. Like I said it is a balance act and there is no right or wrong way to do it. You have to find the balance that works for your personality.
But this whole millennial thing has got me thinking: Maybe this is not such a bad thing. What if I had been “asked” to do dig those ditches straight and deep? Might the approach have made a difference? I really can’t say. But what I do know is that change, no matter how much I resist it and deny it, brings about good things. Working to have good and open flow of communication with staff is a worthy investment in your company. In fact it may actually be one of the best investments you make.
Leadership
Businesses owners who have good employee relations also are good leaders. While leadership is varied in approach the results are the same: If the leadership did their job well, were accountable and responsible, they expected their employees to do the same. And the staff saw the leadership taking responsibility and accountability, which created respect of these tenets in those businesses. It really does all start at the top. What also happens when this approach is adopted is a staff of highly competent people show up for work every day. Those who can’t fit into the mold will quit or fail to be hired.
Be a leader in your company:
- Do what you say you are going to do. “Do as I say, not as I do” cripples business
- Be accountable. If you can’t follow through, own it. People respect leaders who accept responsibility
- Ask questions. Since the staff is often on the front lines of business, they know where things are going well or not so well
Remember, it all begins and ends with you. If you having challenges with employees, then you need to look at how that happened, starting with your own role. Some times the problems seem overwhelming. That is usually the best time to ask for help. Good leaders do that, ask for ideas and solutions, and then implement them. Doing so will actually improve communication with your staff as people are looking to help your business succeed. Engaging them gives a sense of ownership in their role.
Good leaders also know what is going on in their company, at every level. They do this be staying involved, in touch, and communicating with their people. The worst problem a business owner can have is staff that hides the truth, whether it is a broken tool or unhappy customers. You want your people to bring all the news to you, not just the good.
Communication
It’s my experience that most problems between people are caused by a gap in communication, especially staff. Since we are seeing a new generation of employees coming on the job market, communication is going to become even more important between you and your staff. Effective communication is a key component of good leadership.
One of the biggest epiphanies I’ve had in recent years is that people say things for a reason. Maybe you already knew that but it was a big surprise to me. So I started asking the question,”Why do you ask that?” Now when I ask that question, I often get an answer I did not expect.
Now, here is a second epiphany: not everyone thinks like I do. My life experiences cause me to think and speak in a certain way. Someone who lives in the next town, another country or is not of my generation has vastly different experiences than mine and so they communicate differently.
My sister, Cestjon, is an attorney in Seattle and works with people across the globe. She is highly regarded in her field, actually one of the best in the world, and as a result is sought out by people from many cultures. She taught me a couple of key ways to improve communication:
- Ask questions. One I like is, “You said that for a reason. Why?”
- Listen to the answer. Repeat, listen to the answer
- Give clear instructions
- Don’t assume
- Take time to respond. “Let me think about that and get back to you” has kept many doors open even when communication broke down
There are plenty of books and resources available for improving communication and I have found the time I spent invested here has improved all aspects of life, not just business. Working with companies like my friend Trish’s may be a solution for your company as well. Spend a little time honing and improving your communication skills, it will pay dividends down the road.
Resources to help Small Business Owners:
Niclolet Area Technical College Entrepreneur Classes, www.nicoletcollege.edu/business/startabus/
SCORE, Small Business Mentoring and Training, www.score.org
Small Business Administration, www.sba.gov
Vilas County Economic Development Corporation, www.vilascountyedc.org
Oneida County Economic Development Corporation, www.ocedc.org
Brent McFarland has worked as a Financial Advisor, Registered Investment Advisor and served as Business Development Director at the Lac du Flambeau Indian Tribe. In addition to being the 2010 Apple Peeling Champion of Bayfield Apple Festival, he is an Adjunct Instructor at Nicolet Area Technical College in the Business Development Program. He can be reached at bmfarland@gmail.com or 715-604-2275